Today is the day that I finally sit down and write an update. I think I’ve been writing blogs in my head as my inner dialogue throughout the past year but never made time to sit down and write them out. There is so much I could share.
The biggest news is that our family has relocated to Rochester, New York! I’m currently sitting in our temporary (and tiny) two-bedroom apartment wishing we were in a more permanent place already. There’s a long list of things that I don’t like about living in this apartment, but I’m trying to be positive. I have to say that so far I actually like New York very much. The last four weeks have been a blur for me. Barkley came home from his 7-week training and we were immediately in get-ready-to-move-mode.
We had a party at Trailblazer Park in Lake Mary; it doubled as the kids’ birthday party and as a goodbye party. It was a beautiful day and I’m so grateful we were able to do that before we moved.
Evelyn, Me, Liam, and Barkley
Caitlin and me!
Daddy and Daughter
Caitlin, Evelyn, Me, and Kim!
Cool Dude
Next we celebrated their birthdays with family at Disney World. We went to the Akershus Royal Banquet Hall in Epcot’s Norway for dinner and we met Aurora, Ariel, Belle, Cinderella, and of course, Snow White. Evelyn was in heaven; and so was I, actually. It really was a magical day. I think I might need to write an entire post just detailing that whole day.
![blogger-image--1777644678](https://www.senseandstephanie.com/wp-content/uploads/blogger-image-1777644678.jpg)
After Disney, we spent two days with movers packing up our house and saying goodbye to all our belongings (they are currently in a storage facility in Buffalo) and our first home. I have moved into a new residence at least every two years since I was four years old. Our home in Deltona was the first home we ever bought; we purchased it when Evelyn was just one week old. Our kids took our first steps there, ate their first foods, learned their first words, and so much more. We lived there for almost four years. It’s a record for me!
![blogger-image-1743606015](https://www.senseandstephanie.com/wp-content/uploads/blogger-image-1743606015.jpg)
I know that with Barkley’s new job we will be relocating again a few times and I’m trying to prepare myself for that reality. It will be difficult to settle in knowing that it won’t be for long. We are working hard to reach financial peace so that someday we can build a dream home and settle in for the long haul. Sigh.
The kids did really well on their first airplane flight. We were very lucky to get a non-stop flight which made everything run fairly smooth.
First Flight!
Reading on the plane
Our temporary apartment is in Henrietta, and it seems like most of the businesses we are familiar with are in this area so that is helpful. I miss the familiarity of Publix and find that the popular grocery store here, Wegmans, is overwhelming. Instead I like the less popular, Tops. I did find a Trader Joes, which is amazing, I’d never been to one before.
As for our apartment, the walls are thin and I can hear everything the neighbors above and next door are doing; watching tv, listening to music, their children screaming (every night at 9:30), their dogs running back and forth. It’s a bit unsettling. And even though we are in a non-smoking complex, someone, somewhere is smoking and every now and then the cigarette smoke comes through our furnace and fills our apartment with the smell which makes me sick. I can’t wait to be out of here.
Last weekend, we found a house in Walworth and put in an offer. Now we are going through the motions and hoping to close by April 30th. We are spending all our free time daydreaming about how to set up the new house and make it our own. I am very much missing our old home. A few times the kids have said, “Mommy, can we go home?” and it breaks my heart every time. I just try to explain that this is our new home now and they kind of shrug and say, “okay.” I’m not sure just how much they are comprehending of this, but I think, and hope, they are handling things fairly well.
They had their wellness visits with their new pediatrician and I loved her. She spent almost two hours with us talking about their entire history, and gave me lots of information about the schools here and how to get Evelyn all the services she needs. Now I’m on the course of getting Evelyn appointments with a Developmental Pediatrician and new therapists, and registering her for preschool.
Barkley is loving his new job. The best part about this move is seeing him happy every day. For the last eight years every time he has come home from work and I’ve asked, “How was your day?” the answer has been “fine.” Now he is all smiles and loves to talk about what he’s doing and where he’s going and how everyone he is working with is wonderful. They’ve reached out to us and made us feel welcome here.
It’s been absolutely wonderful to have him home for dinner every night of the week and to have weekends off with him. Yesterday was his birthday and we were able to spend the whole day celebrating. We went to two different farms to see NY’s annual Maple Weekend where the farms have samples of their syrup, demonstrations on how they make it, and pancake breakfasts. It was pretty cold so we didn’t stay long but it was a neat and different experience.
Of course, we’ve been to the library for Evelyn. Actually, we’ve gone to three libraries. First we went to one in Monroe County because that is where Barkley’s office is located and I thought we’d end up in that county. Then when we started searching for housing I thought we might end up in Ontario County so I took them to the library there. Finally, when we found the home we are going to purchase I took them to what will now be “our library” in Wayne County, it’s about four minutes from the house! It’s super small and cute, and there are a lot of activities for kids and adults, too.
It has been very cold here. Well, more cold than what we are accustomed to, and while it has snowed a few times, last night was the first snow that stuck. We woke up this morning and bundled the kids up to go out and play in the snow first thing. They loved it. Mom and Dad had to pull them back inside when we got too cold! Evelyn just kept saying, “It’s so beautiful!”
I’ve been so overwhelmed with settling in the last three weeks that I didn’t get to write individual birthday posts for the kids. I’m pretty sad about that. On their actual birthdays we just did little stuff like take Liam to the playground and Evelyn to the library.
I’m sure there is so much more that I could share, but I’ll stop here for now. Maybe I’ll actually do a post about our big Disney day soon!